In Islam, manners are not optional — they are a reflection of your Imaan (faith). From how we speak to how we eat, Islam teaches us a complete way of life filled with respect, compassion, and discipline.
At QMuallim, we not only focus on helping students learn the Quran online, but also emphasize the importance of Islamic etiquette in daily life. In fact, many of our students — kids and adults — explore both the Quranic teachings and etiquettes in Islam together.
If you’ve been wondering, “What are the good manners in Islam?”, this blog post is your gentle guide.
What Does Islam Say About Manners?
Islamic etiquette is deeply rooted in the Quran and Sunnah. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was described as having the best character. Allah says in the Quran:
“And indeed, you are of a great moral character.”
(Surah Al-Qalam, 68:4)
Good manners in Islam aren’t just about being polite — they’re about embodying mercy, truthfulness, cleanliness, patience, and humility in every interaction.
Top Islamic Manners & Etiquettes Every Muslim Should Know
Here are some timeless Islamic etiquettes you can start practicing today:
1. Greeting with Peace
Always say Assalamu Alaikum (peace be upon you) when meeting others. It’s a sunnah and a way to spread love and connection.
“Spread peace among yourselves.” (Sahih Muslim)
2. Speaking the Truth
Never lie, even jokingly. The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Truthfulness leads to righteousness, and righteousness leads to Paradise.” (Bukhari & Muslim)
3. Respecting Parents
The Quran repeatedly emphasizes obedience and kindness to parents — even if they disagree with your beliefs.
“And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy…” (Surah Al-Isra, 17:24)
4. Keeping Clean
Cleanliness is half of faith (Tirmidhi). From personal hygiene to keeping your home neat, Islam teaches cleanliness inside and out.
5. Lowering the Gaze
Modesty is key. Lower your gaze out of respect for others and to guard your soul.
6. Avoiding Backbiting
Gheebah (backbiting) is a major sin. The Quran compares it to eating the flesh of your dead brother. (Surah Al-Hujurat, 49:12)
7. Saying Bismillah Before Eating
Start every meal by saying Bismillah and eat with your right hand. Thank Allah after finishing.
8. Respecting Elders & Loving the Young
Islamic etiquette calls for kindness toward children and deep respect for elders — especially teachers and scholars.
9. Speaking Gently
Speak with wisdom and softness, even when correcting others.
“And speak to people good [words]…” (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:83)
10. Being a Good Neighbor
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“He is not a believer whose neighbor is not safe from his harm.” (Bukhari)
Islamic Etiquettes for Daily Life – A Summary
Here’s a quick list of daily Islamic etiquettes to remember:
- Knock before entering a room
- Cover your mouth when yawning or sneezing
- Say Alhamdulillah after sneezing and YarhamukAllah in response
- Be punctual for prayers and appointments
- Don’t interrupt when someone is speaking
- Use the right hand for eating and giving
- Keep promises
- Smile – it’s charity!
- Be grateful to Allah and to people
- Don’t waste food or water
These are just a few of the 75+ manners found in the Quran and Sunnah. When practiced daily, they turn every action into an act of worship.
75+ Beautiful Islamic Manners & Etiquette Every Muslim Should Follow
Daily Islamic Etiquettes
- Begin everything with Bismillah
- Say Alhamdulillah after sneezing
- Say YarhamukAllah to someone who sneezes
- Say InshaAllah when talking about the future
- Say SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, and Allahu Akbar regularly
- Greet with Assalamu Alaikum
- Reply with Wa Alaikum Assalam
- Say JazakAllah Khair when someone helps you
- Say Astaghfirullah when you make a mistake
- Say MashAllah when admiring something
- Thank Allah after eating (Alhamdulillah)
- Say Bismillah before eating
- Eat and drink with the right hand
- Eat from the portion of food nearest to you
- Avoid wasting food and water
- Don’t blow on food or drinks
- Sit while drinking water
- Use Miswak or brush teeth regularly
- Keep your body and clothes clean
- Clip nails regularly
- Apply perfume (for men) before going to Jummah
- Use the right foot to enter the masjid
- Use the left foot to enter the washroom
- Say the dua before entering and exiting the toilet
- Cover private parts properly (Satr)
- Lower your gaze
- Knock before entering a room
- Respect the privacy of others
- Keep your promises
- Avoid backbiting and gossip
- Speak kindly and softly
- Avoid interrupting others while they speak
- Avoid foul language
- Smile – it’s charity
- Don’t raise your voice unnecessarily
- Listen attentively when someone is speaking
- Seek permission before using someone’s belongings
- Say sorry when you make a mistake
- Forgive others easily
- Respect the opinion of others
Islamic Manners with Family & People
- Obey and honor your parents
- Greet your family members warmly
- Help your parents in daily chores
- Be kind to siblings
- Visit relatives and maintain ties of kinship (Silah Rahmi)
- Speak kindly to your spouse
- Care for your children with love and gentleness
- Honor guests and make them feel welcome
- Treat neighbors with respect
- Help the poor and needy
- Give gifts and say thank you
- Make dua for others in their absence
- Do not mock or make fun of others
- Avoid suspicion and spying
- Treat orphans with compassion
- Be just in your dealings
- Return borrowed items on time
- Don’t delay paying debts
- Don’t boast or show off
- Help those in difficulty
- Respect the elderly
- Be gentle with the young
- Be truthful in speech
- Don’t take part in arguments unnecessarily
- Be humble in speech and behavior
Religious & Spiritual Etiquettes
- Pray Salah on time
- Perform Wudu properly
- Read Quran daily, even if a little
- Make dua with sincerity
- Visit the sick
- Attend funerals and pray Janazah
- Respect Islamic scholars and teachers
- Learn and spread knowledge of Islam
- Make intention (niyyah) before any good deed
- Trust in Allah but tie your camel (take action)
- Say “La Hawla wa La Quwwata illa Billah” in times of difficulty
- Be consistent in doing small good deeds
Why Manners Matter in Islam
At QMuallim, our goal isn’t just to teach students to read or memorize the Quran online — we aim to nurture Muslims who live by the Quran.
Islamic manners shape our behavior, our relationships, and our connection to Allah (SWT). They protect us from arrogance, anger, and selfishness. And they bring peace to our homes, families, and communities.
Learn the Quran and Islamic Etiquette Together with QMuallim
Looking for a place where your child can learn Tajweed, Quran memorization, and Islamic manners at the same time? At QMuallim, we offer:
- Online Islamic Studies for Kids
- Female teachers for sisters and daughters
- One-on-one Quran classes with character-building lessons
- Flexible classes for students in the U.S., Pakistan, and worldwide
Let your Quran journey be more than just reading — let it be about becoming a better Muslim every day.
Final Thoughts
Practicing Islamic etiquette brings barakah (blessing) into every aspect of life. These small acts — a smile, a kind word, a respectful silence — are heavy on the scale in the sight of Allah.
If you’re serious about growing spiritually and raising a generation that lives by the Quran and Sunnah, start learning with QMuallim today.